High Conflict Coparent Coaching scaled

High Conflict Co-parent Coaching

 

Stop fighting. Start collaborating with your co-parent.

 

With Teresa as your Private Co-parenting Coach...

    • Unlock the keys to releasing  your anger, hurt, and disappointment toward your co-parent
    • Learn how to reduce, diffuse, and redirect conflict... even when they don't!

"You can't change your ex. But you can change how you respond to and interact with them." —Teresa

 

Teresa coaches parents together, separately, or individually, if only one parent participates.

Coaching is 100% online.

combativetocollaborative 3Dd

Get the Book

Co-parenting is for ever. It need not be miserable for anyone. Raise happy kids and enjoy your parenting experience more!

“Couples who have experienced the trauma of divorce and are trying to co-parent their children in the best possible way, will find this book extremely helpful.”– Gary Chapman, Ph.D. Author of The 5 Love Languages

Not sure where to begin? Start here!

co parent clinic image final

Co-parenting Clinic: Online Group Coaching for Co-parents

Limited funds? Limited time? Not sure where to start with co-parenting? Been at it a while but struggling?

Get access to a co-parenting coach online at much lower cost than private coaching.

NOTE: Co-parents are never put in the same group! Groups are limited to 15 participants each.

t landscape sit Scaled

Need a Parenting Agreement

Every U.S. state requires a parenting plan or custody agreement of some type. But do you know what should be in it? You could leave it to your attorney. But that can be very expensive.

And hashing it out with your soon-to-be-ex doesn't sound like much fun either.

Teresa can save you money and grief creating a parenting plan that includes everything required. Plus, as a credentialed family mediator and experienced co-parenting coach, she'll help you and your co-parent reach terms that are realistic and serve the needs of your family.

cropped t landscape stand Scaled

Teresa Luse, the "Family Peace Broker"

Teresa has been co-parenting for over 25 years and stepparenting for 18 years. And that journey is what inspired her to help others. It wasn't always easy, but it was always worth it.

Now Teresa is a bestselling author, credentialed family mediator, and co-parenting coach.

Her book Combative to Collaborative: The Co-parenting Code has helped thousands of separated and divorced parents raise their children with less drama and more cooperation. It is used by family law firms, therapists, and mediators across the U.S. in their practices working with parents.

Teresa's compassionate, no-nonsense approach empowers families to move from conflict to calm—even when collaboration seems impossible.

Always looking for opportunities to share her message with others, Teresa also writes for several family-centered publications and is a sought after speaker and media guest.

Looking for Business Collaboration solutions? Head over to Speaking for information on Teresa’s Keynotes and Rockshops

Struggling with Co-parenting or Just Getting Started?

After you divorce or separate from your child’s other parent, your parenting journey continues. Some find it easy. Some find it hard. And some find it impossible. Regardless of whether you like it or not, you will be co-parenting with this person for the rest of your life. Would you like to make that journey easier? Would you like to be a better parent to your children following divorce? 

I’ve been a co-parent for over 20 years and a stepparent for more than 15 years. It wasn’t always easy. It took intention and a maniacal focus on what is important. For me, that was to be a good parent. No one else could do that for me. But I did not believe this had to come at the sacrifice of my personal happiness. So I set out to solve that problem. As a result, I came up with the 3 Cs of Collaborative Co-parenting—Civility, Communication, and Caring. These 3 Cs make up the foundation of my co-parent coaching approach.

If you’d like help with your co-parenting journey, read more about how my co-parent coaching can help you. Not sure? Schedule a free consultation and let’s talk

—Teresa

Combative to Collaborative:
The Co-parenting Code

Combative to Collaborative: The Co-parenting Code book front cover
Combative to Collaborative Audio Book

Bestselling Co-parenting Book

 

“This book is a true breakthrough for co-parents struggling to positively interact or who want to get it right from the beginning. I highly recommend it!” Jack Canfield, Coauthor of Chicken Soup for the Soul

“Couples who have experienced the trauma of divorce and are trying to co-parent their children in the best possible way, will find this book extremely helpful.” Gary Chapman, Ph.D. Author of The 5 Love Languages

Co-parenting doesn’t have to be hard, or mean sacrificing either your family or your own happiness. It’s simply a matter of focus and choices.

Combative to Collaborative: The Co-parenting Code channels parents’ interactions with each other to what they really want…to be good parents together. But while most co-parenting books tell parents to just put the kids first even if that means sacrificing their own happiness, Combative to Collaborative shows parents how supporting each other as good parenting partners ensures they do what’s best for their kids while also achieving personal happiness. Move from anger, hurt, and loss to consideration, kindness, and cooperation.

You will discover:

  • How to diffuse a co-parent’s snarky behavior and avoid triggering their hostility
  • How to recognize your own combative behaviors and stop exhibiting them
  • How to plan for co-parenting collaboration and success
  • How to correct course when a relationship goes astray – even after many years of conflict!

Read more…

Teresa Harlow NSA Professional Speaker Badge

Learn about Teresa’s interactive keynote Collaborate Like a Rock Star!

Speaking of Collaboration…

Want your organization to learn how to save time and money creating solutions while improving business relationships?

Teresa’s time-tested Team Optimization Program (TOP) will turbocharge your business results by tapping into the collective potential of your immediate and extended business team.

With an impressive 30+ year track record in enterprise program management, product development, and technology, Teresa was entrusted with leading the biggest, hairiest, most complex initiatives on the planet for some of the world’s largest companies. Along the way, she honed her signature collaboration and business results framework, consistently achieving remarkable success as a team leader.

Blending her deep business expertise with her background in performing arts, Teresa shares her success framework through her Collaborate Like a Rock Star keynote and series of ROCKshops and Accelerators. 

These interactive presentations, inspired by the most collaborative of art forms—music, will equip your team or event with the knowledge to immediately slash costs and enhance efficiency throughout their workload while enjoying an unforgettable experience.

Ready to bring this experience to your business or association event? Schedule a discovery call with Teresa today. Click here, email [email protected], or call (740) 972-1116

 

Watch Teresa’s interview with Mr. Biz, aka Ken Wentworth

Best Selling Author and world-renowned motivational speaker Jack Canfield interviews Teresa on her book Combative to Collaborative: The Co-parenting Code. Watch the full interview.

Dealing with a “PITA” at work? Teresa sat down with Mr. Biz to talk about co-worker conflicts and team collaboration

We all encounter them. Difficult co-workers. Of course, sometimes after self- reflection or as a result of being demoted, fired, or re-orged, we might discover we are the difficult co-worker. Regardless whether it is you or the other person, those difficult work relationships can torpedo our work efforts, and make work a living hell. And who wants to spend their workday miserable?

If you are experiencing difficulty having productive conversations with a co-worker, you need to listen to this show. Teresa sits down with Mr. Biz in the studio to talk about her professional journey and how she applied lessons she learned the hard way to improve communication, collaboratiion, and co-worker relationships. Now Teresa is eager to share her learning with others.

In this show, you’ll get solid tips you can apply immediately to improve business communication, collaboration, bottom line results, AND personal happiness!

 

Don't ever miss a post!

Teresa is dedicated to helping parents who have separated to find positive parenting solutions through conscious parenting, collaboration, and empathy. She provides practical advice on a wide range of co-parenting topics including how to achieve an amicable divorce, establish a joint custody agreement, manage long distance parenting, and what you can do if you are co-parenting with a narcissist.

Explore her blog to discover a myriad of divorce resources and co-parenting strategies that will lead you and your family toward a collaborative co-parenting experience.

Let's Chat

Need help overcoming obstacles and getting better business results from your teams? Or maybe you need help with a difficult co-parenting or family relationship. Send Teresa a message or give her a call to find out how she can help. We’d love to hear from you!